Marriage Guidance from the Word of God

Bob Lloyd

Southwest Christadelphian Bible School (1999)

In this heartfelt six-part series, Brother Bob Lloyd draws on timeless biblical principles to guide husbands, wives, and families toward stronger, Christ-centered relationships. Speaking with warmth, humor, and conviction, he blends scriptural insights with practical wisdom to help believers navigate the joys and challenges of marriage, parenting, and fellowship. Listeners are encouraged to put the Lord first, serve one another in love, and remain steadfast in their commitment, trusting that God’s Word provides the best counsel for every season of life.

Class 1 – Foundations for a Godly Marriage

This opening class explores the divine blueprint for marriage as revealed in Scripture. Brother Bob reminds couples that their relationship is to reflect the love, patience, and selflessness of the Lord, with both husband and wife committed to building their home on the foundation of God’s Word. Through biblical examples and real-life applications, he urges listeners to seek God’s guidance in every decision and interaction.

Class 2 – Love That Lasts

Focusing on the enduring qualities of true love, this class draws from 1 Corinthians 13 and other passages to show how patience, kindness, humility, and forgiveness form the heart of a lasting marriage. Brother Bob challenges couples to nurture affection, guard their words, and make daily choices that strengthen their bond rather than weaken it.

Class 3 – Communication and Understanding

In this session, the importance of listening and speaking with grace comes to the forefront. Brother Bob emphasizes that good communication involves not just words, but tone, timing, and genuine empathy. He offers practical steps to resolve misunderstandings, avoid needless conflict, and ensure that each partner feels valued and heard.

Class 4 – Resolving Conflicts God’s Way

This class addresses the reality of disagreements and tensions in marriage, offering scriptural methods for handling them without bitterness or resentment. Brother Bob stresses humility, quick forgiveness, and the willingness to put the other’s needs ahead of one’s own. By keeping God’s perspective at the center, conflicts can become opportunities for growth.

Class 5 – Press Towards the Mark

Using personal stories and biblical teaching, Brother Bob calls for consistency in marriage, parenting, and ecclesial life. He warns against letting moods dictate actions and urges couples to be dependable, steadfast, and guided by the Lord’s standards. By putting God first—even above family and possessions—believers gain a larger spiritual family and the blessings He promises.

Class 6 – H.E.L.P. for a Strong Marriage

In the concluding session, Brother Bob offers a memorable acronym—H.E.L.P.—to summarize key principles: be Happy in the Lord, show Endurance through challenges, Listen more than you speak, and Pray continually. These qualities, anchored in Scripture, provide lasting guidance for being a loving spouse, faithful parent, and committed brother or sister in Christ.

This description has been generated by AI and lightly edited.


Give ear, and hear my voice; give attention, and hear my speech.

Isaiah 28:23 (ESV)